I’m a planner. Before Chance, I was never a planner. I was more of a go-with-the-flow, go-wherever-and-whenever-it-makes-you-happy kind of person. I’d pack the day of the trip, no list needed. I was typically late for things for dumb reasons, like realizing at the last minute that my gas tank was empty. Chance forced me to be a planner. I had to plan ahead, plan back-up plans, plan sideways plans, because we never knew if Chance would be sick, hospitalized, spew a